“10 Ways to Know if Your Partner Loves You”
All year round, the most popularly asked question from my readers have been "abhyacintho, how can I tell if my partner loves me?"; well, here is a little Christmas gift from me to you, be blessed!
X – WILLING TO DEFEND YOU, EVEN IN ABSENCE:
In college I had a course mate who was always proud of boasting to the whole class about his partner, and was always quick to defend her when anyone tries to criticize or talk down on his woman, even if it will lead to a fight or a silly malice. So much pride! Does your partner defend you when someone else criticizes you or does he or she join them in the mockery?
IX – MAKES YOU FEEL SPECIAL:
Being with someone who makes you feel valued is wonderful, a partner who truly loves and cares about you will always try to boost your self-esteem and make you feel always special, PRICELESS!
VIII – BIG PART OF DECISION MAKING:
We all want to be involved in each other’s lives as much as we can, having our partner ask our opinions or seek our advice about their personal challenges before taking decisions. Does your partner make decisions without you? Or you probably find out later.
VII – SHOWS RESPECT FOR YOUR VIEWS:
Some partners never agree on anything, as one will always try to show more superiority over the other, and at such they’ll always want their own views and suggestions to over-ride the other. Does your partner treat your views and perspectives as valid? Or just wave them away as garbage.
VI – MAKES UNCOMMON SACRIFICES:
I know a friend who sneaked out of the office and ran home to buy some medication for her man who was too sick of malaria to even speak, risking her job for his well-being. A partner who loves you will run a rescue mission for you no matter the course.
V – TRUST YOU:
A partner who doesn’t question where you are or who you’re with, or doesn’t snoop through your phone is showing a great amount of trust. Does yours give you the benefit of the doubt?
IV – LOVES TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU:
You know how busy your partner can get, with work, school, personal study time, career, and family to attend to, yet in all of these he or she still uses whatever time is left over to have some alone time with you, that’s an evidence of love.
III – ASK ABOUT YOUR DAY:
By these I do not mean asking lazy questions like “how was your day?” - “fine” and that’s all. Am talking about your partner’s effort to building a stronger communication, and willingness to pay ultimate attention to all the jargons that happened during the day.
II – AFFECTIONS:
I tell Christian lovers every day; “you do not need any sex at all to be emotionally intimate with your partner, that story about how sex makes a relationship stronger is a BIG FAT LIE from hell.” Your partner can show physical closeness to you by holding hands, a warm hug, and a pat on the back, or resting their head or hands on your shoulders, it’s a big sign of love, sweeter than sex!
I – PRAYS FOR YOU:
What else is left to say? If your partner doesn’t prayer for you it’s a pity. It means you are missing the most important Ingredient of love. Scripture speaking the Bible says “guard your heart with all diligence”; if truly you are in their heart, then they’ll always guard you with their prayers.
#MerryChristmas #ProsperousNewYear #Gift #FromMeToYou
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