7 SIGNS OF A BAD RELATIONSHIP”
Today I would love to walk you through 7(seven) warning signs of a relationship heading for failure. I believe it will open your eyes to see how you have probably being wasting your precious time rowing a boat that is heading NOWHERE, and how urgently you need a change.
(I) the first and most important sign to help you know if that relationship is headed for the rock is “THE HONEST QUESTION”. Find a quiet time and ask yourself; am i worried for my relationship? Am I happy here? Am I getting the kind of treatment I deserve? Would i wish my sister or brother to be in this kind of a relationship? Trust me, you can lie to the world that all is going great, but no, you can’t lie to yourself.
(II) No two people can have the exact same plans for the future, but the happiest partners are the ones who have “THE SAME FOCUS”. Do you two have the same understanding of what you both want? Do you two agree on simple issues, like SEX, finance, family matters, or goals for the future? If that answer is a NO, then I wonder what you two have been building!
(III) Does your partner make all the decisions all the time? . . Or do you? An “UNEQUAL BALANCE OF POWER” is a sign of a bad relationship. The moment one starts taking decisions without talking with the other first about it, then it means that one has started learning to live without the other.
(IV) Pay attention to how your partner treats you in public. And especially around people, I mean important people like work colleagues, family, closest friends, etc. if they always “PUT YOU DOWN” in front of others, or make you feel less important, then you hold no value to them.
(V) If your partner has found a new habit of checking your phone, emails, messages or is asking many questions about your phone calls, ahh ahh ahhh, that’s not jealousy, its insecurity. And nothing kills a relationship faster than “TRUST ISSUES”, they give birth to a million other doubts.
(VI) “YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS AREN’T SUPPORTIVE OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP”. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think we should choose our partner based on the opinions of our family and friends, but I do think we should take their opinions into consideration, especially that of family. If they have strong reservations about your partner, i encourage you to ask for specific reasons, find out the root of their feelings, and try to be objective.
(VII) Lastly, if you do not share “THE SAME RELIGIOUS BELIEFS AND VALUES”, then you two are unequally yoked, and it’s only a matter of time before you both sail into Pandora’s Box. Does your partner see God the way you do? Is your relationship helping you find Christ or drawing you further away? Because without GOD; NOTHING WORKS.
May you be infused with strength, clear thinking, and wisdom to know that God’s wish for you is to be happy, and PROSPER in a loving relationship, the kind HE has prepared for you. #staysafe
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