Sadly, it has always remained a mystery for some families in Nigeria who wonder why their children have not even bothered to return home for once since they left the shores of this great country, not even for a visit, after they’ve been gone for so many years.
Well, the sour truth is that most of these our children cannot return home because they do not have travel documents. There are stuck over there, and have to keep racing from one place to the other, hiding from police agencies, to avoid getting nabbed and deported back home.
A lot of them are working and living with other people’s identifications there, and they have to pay such people a fat some of money running into hundreds of dollars weekly, now that is suicide, because they have to work, work and work, until such persons find other alternatives to staying there which may be another illegal way, and the day they are caught, they are finally thrown out of the states, and then they come back home frustrated and many times some embrace intentions of suicide and crime.
So for some of you ladies who are meeting some of these men on social sites thinking you have found husbands, I am very sorry for you. You sef dey do longer throat sote e dey hungry you to marry American bobo, you no know say American boy no get papers? not even toilet tissue. All the decent Naija guys weh approach you for marriage you don carry troweh, big eye no gree you think well. He said he is coming back home soon, 5 years don pass, abi the American bobo dey treck for leg dey come? How come he is planning to come back home now that he just met you online? How come you are the one running around to get an apartment for both of you and all these you are doing with your small salary?
Bobo Americana is going to be deported soon and he knows it, he has sweet-talked you into getting an apartment ready so that when he comes he’ll have a place to stay and be a burden to you. His family members you no sabi, since he’s been over there he has nothing over here to show for it. He can’t go to school, he doesn’t have qualifications to secure a good job, because he has no legal documents to be in the land. And most of these guys turn to social networks to look for easy naďve desperate ladies who wants to get married now now now, ladies who have high-flying jobs, become their friends, and propose marriage. By the time he comes home deported without shishi, he begins to tell one lie after another, by the time you discover the truth its two days to your wedding, then its too late, and you’re too ashamed to call it off.
You better shine your eyes well well. It is not by force to marry Londoner. If he is serious about it let him come back home and show working, let him introduce you to his family over here as a security, let him come and arrange the apartment with his own cash, no pack all the better naija men wey God don give you troweh because of one George Bush Americana, importer, exporter, and pure water!
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