5 malabites You Should date on campus
At some point, it seems like we've met all the guys there are to meet, and even hooked up with all of the ones that are worth hooking up with. The unical community can get really small really fast, and before we know it, malabites/malabresses seem to run ourselves in circles by hanging out with the same crowd night after night, and inevitably hooking up with the same guys – or, more simply, no guys at all. Here are the 6 guys you should reconsider
The guy from freshman year [mth 1111class]: He sat behind you; you exchanged hi’s and bye’s; you did homework together a few times; the semester ended. Well, you definitely let that one slip away, but lucky for you, you have his number from when you had to meet to collaborate in the library (note: if this is not true, this is where expert whatsapp come into play – no dey do shakara). If you’re uncomfortable sending him a random text, try a whatsapp message suggesting that it’d be nice to catch up. And if you happen to run into him on campus, don’t settle for a quick hello, chat him up, reconnect, and propose to hang out sometime soon. A casual lunch, or stroll around campus or town are good options for this kind of get-together.
The guy who always offers to help you with your homework: If he offers to help you with your work, he’s obviously interested in spending time with you outside of the classroom (no dey put the guy on scale). Sure, maybe he just wants to be friends, but even so, this smart, kind type of guy is good to have around. Whatever you’re getting – actual homework help or “homework help” [y’all know what I mean] this guy is worth reaching out to.
The guy you always see around campus: You may have never formally met (no, that one time at a party when you were both wasted doesn't count), but you see each other everywhere on campus. Well, it’s time to make those awkward passing glances more than just that. The next time you see him, offer a more approachable “hi,” and introduce yourself. Comment on the fact that you always see him in this area on campus (as long as you’re sure that he notices you too) – perhaps you’re taking similar classes. If he seems friendly and open, ask him to grab lunch one day so you can get to know each other better.(be the first for once, na wa ohh).
The guy who deserves another chance: The same way you might have made a mistake in a previous relationship, this guy might feel that he made one himself. Whether he didn’t share his true feelings, thought that your feelings were too strong, or didn’t want to commit to anything beyond a casual hook-up, perhaps he took some time to reevaluate. He hurt you, but if he comes back with clearer intentions (good ones, preferably), a better attitude, and can now verbalize strong feelings (and maybe an apology, too) for you, it may be in your best interest to lay spite aside, and give him another shot.(let somebody love you)
The guy who invites you to date functions as a “friend.”: He thinks you’re fun enough to party with and respectable enough to bring somewhere as his date, so what are you waiting for? If you feel like it’s time that this relationship starts to drift away from “just friends” and more towards a potential hook-up (or more), make it happen. Clearly, you’re in good standing with one another and you enjoy spending time together. Tell him you’re interested in something more than a friendship, or make a bold move one night at a date party to make it crystal clear.
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